Thursday, November 27, 2008

Passion, compassion and dispassion

All wonderful ways in which we can think powerfully for good.
But we seem to need experience of pain sometimes in order to really gain them. No pain no gain !.
The reality is that really dealing effectively with our emotions is the key to really enjoying living with each other: If we do not face pain and the fear there is no gain; only fear only pain
The gain comes from facing and overcoming those things that grate and things we hate.
Be persuaded by facing your fears and getting help to face even the biggest obstacles.

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Dealing with Anger

Its very scary sure should we face it
Are we too afraid of anger? The western secularist world we live in is often afraid of anger and raw emotion and therefore ----does not allow young westerners to deal with it effectively ( in the way our forefathers did) - this self imposed post modern doctrine is a root cause of depression .( see Wikipedia on Depression and its causes )

Thankfully this fear of anger itself need not be. Fear yes because there are cliffs and their is danger OUT there - but deal with it !!! For a more wholistic view of the danger here - see Jesus statements on murder, hate and anger . ( Watch " Fiddler on the Roof" sometime and see where to direct your anger and questions about life!!!)

From a scientists and medical point of view . Adrenalin should be telling the half baked science worshipers( they talk about " whats scientistssay" but they don't always listen to " what scientists say " --)

Adrenalin and other fight or flight hormones tell us that emotion is Ok - part of the system that helps us keep the balance . But no, the paradigm of monism ( we are only as good as how we behave) controls their view of science and stimulating life facts ( as most faith systems do) .

Most importantly, if you like evidence based answers, our civilization has got over this overtly pedantic political correctness talk before and moved on . Take Jesus and his challenging of the law makers and politically correct of his day. Fighting words that set the scene for freedom from the past . We celebrate today with Obama and America .

SO, next time your wife or your mother yells at you --------don't walk out the door!!! - take it like a man!
For a great CD on the subject by a former Australain SAS troop trainer contact me !
Joy and peace to you !